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Life Insurance: A Must Have for New Parents

November 4, 2025 | 2 Comments

new parentsIf you’re planning to have a baby soon, you may be overwhelmed by the expenses you’re facing.  All that new baby gear costs quite a pretty penny!  There are so many must-haves:  a crib, changing table, bouncy seat, baby tub, just to name a few.  Marketers would like you to believe that this is just the beginning of the items you’ll need for the baby.

Don’t forget other necessities like diapers, wipes, formula.

Whew.  Are you getting nervous yet?

While you may resign yourself to paying for these items, one important item you may not even consider is life insurance.

If you don’t have life insurance yet, you’ll want to get a policy as soon as the baby is born.  Hopefully you’ll live a nice, long life, but if you don’t, you want to leave money so that your spouse or another caregiver can afford to raise your child.

 

Why Life Insurance Through Your Employer Shouldn’t Be Your Only Policy

You could get a fairly low cost policy through your employer, but this is a risky strategy.  Remember, if you leave this job, you’ll forfeit the company’s life insurance policy.  While that makes little difference if you’re healthy, if you develop a health condition before you leave your job, you’ll be hard pressed to find an insurer that will issue you a life insurance policy for a premium you can afford.

You could take out employer-based life insurance as a supplemental policy, but it shouldn’t be your only policy.

 

How to Reduce the Cost of Private Life Insurance

It’s far better to get your own private health insurance.

I know, you may think that is one more expense that you really can’t afford, but the simple truth is that you cannot NOT afford a life insurance policy.

The good news, though, is that if you’re healthy, you’ll likely find that a private life insurance policy is not as pricey as you think.  Our friend Jeff Rose has some great tips on how to get the best rates on life insurance.

There are other strategies, too.  If you’re overweight when you initially get your policy but you lose weight and get into a healthy weight range, your premium might be adjusted to cost you less (because the insurer’s risk is lower).  Usually, you need to maintain this weight loss for at least a year and also have a doctor’s notice that you’ve maintained the weight loss for that duration.

The same consideration might be given to a smoker who has become a non-smoker.

Finally, remember that shopping around for the lowest policy is an excellent way to reduce costs.  You’ll likely be surprised how much the same insurance policy’s premium can vary from company to company.

While you likely don’t want to think about life insurance, if you’re having a baby, you must protect yourself and your child with a good life insurance policy.

Do you have life insurance to protect your family?

Brian
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Brian is the founder of Kids Ain’t Cheap and is now sharing his journey through parenthood.

 
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Filed Under: Money and Finances Tagged With: Insurance, life insurance, money, new parent

Solo Parent Moves: 8 Crucial Legal Moves for Single Parents

August 18, 2025 | Leave a Comment

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Being a single parent comes with more than just the daily responsibilities of raising a child—it also requires long-term planning. Without the right legal protections in place, single parents can leave their children vulnerable to financial, medical, and custody complications. Many parents focus on immediate needs like school and childcare, but legal documents are just as important. By taking a few strategic steps, single parents can protect both themselves and their children’s future. These legal moves may not seem urgent now, but they can make all the difference when life takes an unexpected turn.

1. Establishing Legal Custody Rights

The first and most important step for single parents is making sure custody is clearly defined. Without a court order or custody agreement, disputes can arise if the other parent challenges your rights. Legal custody also ensures you can make major decisions for your child, such as education and healthcare choices. Even if the other parent is supportive, having documentation provides security. Courts typically prioritize the child’s best interests, so it’s better to formalize these arrangements early.

2. Creating a Will That Names Guardianship

A will is one of the most powerful tools a single parent can have. By naming a guardian, you ensure your child won’t be left in limbo if something happens to you. Without this legal safeguard, courts may assign guardianship without your input. Choosing a trusted family member or friend gives you peace of mind and reduces uncertainty for your child. Updating the will regularly ensures it reflects your current wishes and circumstances.

3. Setting Up a Trust for Financial Security

While a will determines guardianship, a trust provides financial stability for your child. Trusts allow you to specify how money is managed and distributed, preventing misuse. Single parents often use trusts to ensure children receive funds for education, healthcare, and living expenses. Unlike direct inheritance, trusts can protect assets until children reach adulthood. This move creates a financial safety net that outlasts unforeseen challenges.

4. Securing Life Insurance Coverage

Life insurance is critical for single parents who are the sole providers. It ensures that your child has financial support if you pass away unexpectedly. Policies can cover living expenses, college tuition, and even future housing needs. Premiums may feel like another monthly bill, but they provide priceless security. A solid life insurance plan is one of the simplest ways to guarantee your child’s well-being.

5. Drafting a Power of Attorney Document

A power of attorney allows someone you trust to handle legal or financial matters on your behalf. For single parents, this is especially valuable during emergencies or long absences. If you become incapacitated, the designated person can manage bills, accounts, or other important matters. Without this document, your child’s care and your financial obligations may be left unresolved. Having a power of attorney in place is a proactive safeguard every single parent should consider.

6. Preparing an Advance Healthcare Directive

An advance healthcare directive outlines your medical wishes if you can’t speak for yourself. For single parents, this ensures that your child won’t be left to make impossible decisions in a crisis. It can also designate someone to make medical choices on your behalf. This legal move protects both your dignity and your child from added stress during emergencies. Knowing your wishes are documented provides peace of mind.

7. Keeping Child Support Agreements Up to Date

Even when co-parenting arrangements are civil, keeping child support legally documented is crucial. Court-approved agreements prevent disputes and ensure consistent financial support. If circumstances change, such as job loss or relocation, these agreements can be modified legally. Informal arrangements, while convenient, can create problems if the other parent stops contributing. A formal child support plan gives single parents financial predictability.

8. Documenting Emergency Care Instructions

Single parents should also create written instructions for emergencies. This can include consent forms for medical care, contact details for guardians, and instructions for schools or caregivers. Having these documents ready ensures your child is cared for without delay if you’re unavailable. Even a temporary absence, such as a hospital stay, can cause confusion without proper paperwork. Documenting emergency instructions is a small step with major benefits.

Building a Legal Safety Net for Your Child

Single parents juggle countless responsibilities, but securing legal protections is one that should never be overlooked. Custody rights, wills, trusts, and insurance all work together to form a shield around your child’s future. While these steps take time and planning, they provide stability when life is unpredictable. More importantly, they ensure your child is protected no matter what happens. By making these moves now, single parents give their children the strongest possible foundation.

Which of these legal moves do you think single parents overlook most often? Share your thoughts in the comments!

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Amanda Blankenship

Amanda Blankenship is a full-time stay-at-home mom. Her family recently welcomed their second child, a baby boy, into the world. She loves writing about various topics, including politics and personal finance. In her spare time, Amanda loves to play with her kids, make food from scratch, crochet, and read.

Filed Under: Legal Tagged With: custody, financial planning, legal advice, life insurance, Parenting, single parents, trusts, wills

How to Talk to Your Family About Life Insurance

September 9, 2014 | 1 Comment

life insuranceLife insurance is an important financial tool meant to protect your family in the event that something happens to you or your spouse.

And when you have kids to watch out for life insurance becomes a must-have. But talking about life insurance and the kind of coverage you need can be a tough topic to bring up. No one wants to think about leaving their family, but unfortunately that will day will eventually come.

There are too many times when a family loses a loved one who was once responsible for the financial well-being of the family with no life insurance. In these cases the family suffers not only mentally and emotionally, but also financially.

If you want to keep your family protected but need to figure out a way to bring up life insurance here are some ideas.

Talk About the Future of Your Children

As parents we all like to think about the future of our children. And as a responsible parent you can recognize that finances play a part in a bright financial future.

While you and your spouse are talking about the future of your children bring up the idea of a will and life insurance. Talk about what would need to be done if something happened to one or both of you. Who would take care of your children? How much money would you need to leave?

Calculate how much money would be necessary to cover all of your debt and to leave money for expenses, like your children’s college education.

Set Up a Meeting with Your Insurance Agent

If you feel like you and your spouse have a lot of unanswered questions then call your insurance agent and set up a meeting.

Your agent can answer all of your questions, provide you with quotes, and help you calculate how much money you need to stay protected. Talking to an experienced advisor can help your feel at peace with the decisions you make.

Bring Up Some Statistics

State Farm recently conducted a survey on life insurance with some pretty interesting statistics. For instance, when asked if life insurance has been an important part of their family’s financial plan for generations, almost half (48 percent) of Americans agreed and 22 percent strongly agreed.

Another interesting insight from the survey was that parents of children under 18 are more likely than those who aren’t parents of children under 18 to say life insurance is an asset (58 percent versus 47 percent).

You can find more results from the life insurance survey on Good Neighbors. These points can help you spark a conversation with your significant other.

Getting Protected Isn’t Hard

Unless you have a health issue life insurance isn’t terribly expensive. Regardless, it should be a line item built into your budget and looked at as an asset rather than an expense.

As a parent you shouldn’t leave the fate of your children in someone else’s’ hands. Life insurance can help you map out a plan for your family’s futures.

Have you made life insurance part of your family’s financial plan yet?

Disclosure: This blog post was written as part of a sponsored program for State Farm to raise awareness about the importance of life insurance. All views expressed are entirely my own, and were not influenced or directed by State Farm. You can learn more about this blogger program and life insurance at GoodNeighbors.com, PlantingMoneySeeds.com, and by following #StartLiving on Twitter.

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Brian is the founder of Kids Ain’t Cheap and is now sharing his journey through parenthood.

 
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  1. What You Do Matters: Your kids are watching you. So, be purposeful about what you want to accomplish.
  2. You Can’t be Too Loving: Don’t replace love with material possessions, lowered expectations or leniency.
  3. Be Involved Your Kids Life: Arrange your priorities to focus on what your kid’s needs. Be there mentally and physically.
  4. Adapt Your Parenting: Children grow quickly, so keep pace with your child’s development.
  5. Establish and Set Rules: The rules you set for children will establish the rules they set for themselves later.  Avoid harsh discipline and be consistent.
  6. Explain Your Decisions: What is obvious to you may not be evident to your child. They don’t have the experience you do.
  7. Be Respectful To Your Child: How you treat your child is how they will treat others.  Be polite, respectful and make an effort to pay attention.
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