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Understanding the Costs of Early Childhood Special Education and How to Save

January 10, 2025 | Leave a Comment

Understanding the Costs of Early Childhood Special Education
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Estimates suggest that raising a child with special needs from birth to adulthood can cost upwards of $2.5 million. Thankfully there are publicly funded programs, grants, and other types of assistance that can significantly reduce your out-of-pocket costs. For example, state-run early childhood special education programs can help babies and toddlers with developmental delays build language and motor skills. Children who receive early intervention are less likely to need support services later on, potentially saving you thousands down the line. Here’s how to get your child the help they need without breaking the bank.

How to Save on Early Childhood Special Education 

Childhood special education programs
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If your child isn’t hitting important developmental milestones, they may need additional support to catch up, such as physical or speech therapy. Starting interventions early before your child enters school can set them up for academic success. However, the cost of private services is out of reach for many families. Private providers may charge $100 to $200 per hour or more. If you have insurance, it may help cover the cost of medically necessary services. Below are some additional avenues to explore.

Publicly Funded Early Childhood Special Education Programs

Public school is a great option
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According to the CDC, early childhood special education programs are currently available in every state. Children with special needs can receive support services for free or at a reduced cost. Some states charge nothing, while others may require you to pay a sliding scale fee based on your income. 

To determine your child’s eligibility, you can either speak to their pediatrician or arrange a developmental evaluation through the state. If your child is under the age of three, you can call your state’s early childhood education program to get an assessment. Kids older than three can be evaluated by the local school district even if they don’t attend classes there.

Apply for Grants 

applying for grants can help lighten the load
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Many nonprofit organizations offer grants to help parents cover their child’s healthcare costs. Although you won’t have to repay these funds, you may be required to use them for specific purposes, such as assistive devices or medical bills. Keep in mind that some grants may only be available to children with certain conditions or families with limited incomes. Before you spend time filling out an application, make sure you meet the eligibility requirements for the grant. Below are a few organizations that may provide aid, but keep in mind that funds are limited.

  • The M.O.R.G.A.N. Project
  • The Federation for Children with Special Needs
  • Autism Speaks and Autism Care Today
  • Disabled Children’s Relief Fund
  • Different Needz Foundation

Research Community Resources 

Your community is here to support you
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There may also be nonprofits in your local community that provide various services to kids with special needs. For example, Extra Special People in Georgia runs affordable summer camps and after-school care programs for kids with disabilities. Some churches have food pantries, transportation services, and respite care programs to help members in need. Many communities also have assistive device exchange programs to make it easier to afford medical equipment. Googling “resources for disabled children” followed by your location can yield helpful search results and services.

Take Advantage of Tax Credits 

Find tax credits that will benefit you
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Parents of disabled children may qualify for certain tax credits or deductions. You may be able to deduct the cost of prescriptions, travel to and from appointments, medical equipment, and necessary home modifications on your taxes. There are also tax credits you might be eligible for, such as the EITC for Parents of Children with Disabilities or Child or Dependent Care Credit, which helps offset childcare costs.

Consider Applying for Benefits 

Being a caretaker is valid
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There’s no shame in applying for benefits if you need them. Caretaking responsibilities often make it difficult for parents of disabled children to earn sufficient income. Depending on your salary, you may qualify for programs like Medicaid and CHIP, which provide free or low-cost health coverage. If your child is considered disabled, you may be eligible to receive SSI payments from the Social Security Administration as well. Other programs to look into include food stamps and TANF, which provides emergency financial assistance. These programs can reduce the strain on your budget and help you afford the therapies your child needs.

Early childhood special education can be expensive, but luckily assistance is available. Grants, state-run programs, and community resources can help you cover the cost of the support services your child needs. Do you have any strategies for saving money on medical costs? Share your tips below!

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Vicky Monroe is a freelance personal finance writer who enjoys learning about and discussing the psychology of money. In her free time, she loves to cook and tackle DIY projects.

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How to Afford Raising a Child with Special Needs

June 3, 2021 | Leave a Comment

Afford Raising a Special Needs Child

When you have a special needs child, you are faced with a double financial whammy.  Of course, there is the added expense for therapy, medication, counseling, tutoring, etc.  These expenses alone can put a family into debt as they try to provide for their child.  However, there’s another cost that is rarely discussed.  Because caring for a special needs child can be time consuming, often one parent has to quit their job or reduce their hours to part-time.  Now, there are not only added expenses, but a loss of income.  How can one afford raising a child with special needs?

Thankfully, there is assistance available, if you know where to look.

Get a Diagnosis

The first thing you must do is get a diagnosis.  For instance, if your child has autism, she likely can’t receive any therapy until she is officially diagnosed by a qualified professional.

You will need to talk to your pediatrician to see how to go about getting a diagnosis.  There are a number of experts who diagnosis special needs children, depending on what special need you think your child has.

How to Afford Raising a Child with Special Needs

Afford Raising a Special Needs Child

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Once you have the diagnosis, you can begin to pursue therapy, if need be, and funding sources.  There are a number of places you should look.

See What Your Insurance Covers

Once you have the diagnosis, the next step is to see what your insurance covers.  All three of my children have special needs.  While my husband’s insurance didn’t cover speech therapy (some insurances do, but ours didn’t), it did cover applied behavioral analysis (ABA) therapy for our children with autism.

Depending on the quality of your insurance, you may be surprised to find that it covers more than you would have expected.

Talk to Other Parents

If you’re in contact with other parents of special needs kids, make sure to talk to them.  They can give you tips for where to find resources, whether they be federal or state aid or grants.

You can find other special needs parents at support groups and in places like Facebook groups.  If you homeschool, you may find special needs parents in your homeschool groups because a surprising number of kids who are homeschooled have special needs.

The more people you can talk to the better because each parent has a different story and different places where they’re getting help and support.

Apply for Social Security Income (SSI)

Another option is to apply for social security income.  Based on your family income and your child’s disability, you may qualify for SSI.  You will need to fill out some forms and make an appointment at your local social security office.  There, you will have an interview about your finances and your child’s disability.

Of note, if your child qualifies for SSI, you will also be able to cover your child through Medicaid.

If you don’t have private insurance but make too much to qualify for Medicaid, look into getting insurance through the Children’s Health Insurance Program (CHIP).

Open an ABLE Account

Afford Raising a Special Needs Child

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An ABLE account allows you to save money in a special account just for your special needs child’s medical and living expenses.  You or other relatives like grandparents can deposit up to $15,000 a year.  This tax-advantaged savings account does not tax the income earned by the account.

Another advantage of this account is that if your child qualifies for governmental assistance, such as SSI or Medicaid, the money in their ABLE account does not disqualify them for services on a financial basis.  Meanwhile, the money in the ABLE account can be used for their education, food, housing, support services, and an array of other needs.

Find What You’re Eligible for With Your State

Another fabulous tool to use is Benefits Finder.  This tool asks you to input some information about your child and his disability.  It can then help you see what benefits your child may be able to receive and what agencies to contact to pursue these options.

Determine If Your State Supports School Choice

Many special needs children simply don’t get the support and intervention that they need through the public school.  If your state supports school choice, you may be able to apply for funding to help provide your child with the education they need, whether that be through homeschooling and using tutors and therapists or through a private school, which would otherwise be unaffordable.

I’m in the state of Arizona, and they offer Empowerment Scholarship Accounts (ESA).  I have one child who has both dyslexia and a speech issue, so we applied and qualified for the ESA scholarship.  Through those funds, I was able to get my child a private dyslexia tutor and a private speech therapist.  Paying for these things out of pocket would have cost my family $800 a month, which is not sustainable.  Thanks to the scholarship, I could afford to pay for that.  My child has now graduated successfully from both therapies.

Indiana is planning to launch a similar program, and Mississippi has several scholarships available for students with special needs.  You can find out if your state offers a similar program by going to the Ed Choice website.

Final Thoughts

Raising a special needs child can be exhausting, but it’s also rewarding.  However, the financial costs of getting your child the help he needs can be financially draining.  One special needs parent I spoke with when we first learned of our children’s disability said she and her husband ended up filing for bankruptcy because there were so many interventions she had to pay out of pocket.

There are resources available so that seeking help for your special needs child doesn’t have to decimate your finances.   With these resources, you should hopefully find ways to afford raising a special needs child.

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Melissa Batai
Melissa Batai

Melissa is a writer and virtual assistant. She earned her Master’s from Southern Illinois University, and her Bachelor’s in English from the University of Michigan. When she’s not working, you can find her homeschooling her kids, reading a good book, or cooking. She resides in Arizona where she dislikes the summer heat but loves the natural beauty of the area.

Filed Under: Growing Up, Medical, Money and Finances Tagged With: autism, disabilities, grants, health insurance, scholarships, special needs

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