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Should You Wait to Travel Internationally Until Your Kids Are Older?

We wanted to make the trip to Japan for quite some time, but we couldn’t imagine such a long journey when our kids were little. We were planning a trip for February 2020, when our kids were 16, 11, and 10, which I think would have been the best ages to travel internationally with kids. However, COVID hit, and we had to cancel our trip. As soon as Japan opened back up, we made our plans.

Benefits of Traveling with Kids 10 Years Old and Older

Now that we’ve experienced taking a large international trip with our kids, we decided that kids over 10 are the best to travel abroad with for several reasons.

Require Less Stuff

When you travel with babies and toddlers, you must pack a lot of stuff—additional clothes, diapers, baby gear, etc. Our kids didn’t need much extra stuff. We each brought a carry-on for the five of us to use during the plane trip. We only brought three suitcases total, so we traveled light.

Can Participate in Planning

Older kids can participate more in planning the trip. Our kids all researched and decided what they wanted to see, and then we voted on the choices. We could choose from activities geared toward adults as well as activities geared toward kids because our kids could do either. When you travel with younger kids, you’re confined to activities that cater to children.

Can Better Handle a Long Flight and Jet Lag

Our travel time was 24 hours straight. During that time, we had an hour-long drive, a 1.5-hour flight, a six-hour layover, a 12.5-hour flight, and a one-hour train ride. It was grueling for us, but it would have been much more difficult with younger kids.

Can Learn More

I think traveling with kids at any age is important, but when kids are younger, they don’t remember the vacations as well. An international trip requires a great deal of planning and is costly. Because we made this trip when our kids were in their teens, they are more likely to remember than if we had taken them when they were under ten.

Final Thoughts

Plenty of people travel internationally with young children. However, for our family, my husband and I decided the best time to travel internationally with kids is when they’re ten or older.

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Melissa Batai

Melissa is a writer and virtual assistant. She earned her Master’s from Southern Illinois University, and her Bachelor’s in English from the University of Michigan. When she’s not working, you can find her homeschooling her kids, reading a good book, or cooking. She resides in Arizona where she dislikes the summer heat but loves the natural beauty of the area.

My husband and I have traveled internationally, but never with our kids. Now, our children are 19, 14, and 13, and the time has come to take a trip to Asia to visit my husband’s family. Our kids are a bit nervous and reticent, so here’s how we’re trying to get teens excited about an international trip. After all, this is an expensive visit for our family, so we want to make it as enjoyable as possible for the kids.

A Little Background

Admittedly, this trip would have been easier to take when our kids were younger. Now that they’re teens, several factors are leading to their worry and discomfort:

They’re Leaving Behind Friends

For teenagers, their friends are their most important priority, and leaving them, even for two weeks, is difficult. Our kids worry that they’ll miss something fun with friends when they’re gone and that they’ll miss their friends.

They Don’t Know the Language

Knowing that they’ll be immersed in a culture where they don’t know how to communicate is difficult. Their grandparents don’t speak English, so my husband must serve as a translator, which is challenging for him.

They’re Worried About Being Immersed in a Complete Foreign Environment

Along with the language barrier, they’re also worried about not understanding the new environment and being overwhelmed because it’s so different from the United States.

How to Get Teens Excited about an International Trip

We recognize why they’re nervous, so we’re trying our best to help ease their discomfort before we go. Here are the strategies we’re trying.

Find Activities They Want to Do

We combed through activities to do and made a list of the ones we thought most people would enjoy and fit our schedule and budget. Then, we sent the list to the kids so they could look through it.

Get Their Opinion

We had a family meeting, and every child got to pick one activity they wanted to do. Then, as a family, we chose the rest of the activities. This required some negotiation, but ultimately, we agreed on the sites we planned to visit. Getting the kids’ input helped them feel more excited and invested in the trip.

Practice the Language

We also have been practicing the language. My husband has been talking to us in Japanese, and we’re working on learning the 300 most commonly used words so we can communicate at an elementary level.

Try the Food

We’ve always eaten some Japanese food, but now we’re eating more types of Japanese food, so we’re familiar with them before we get there.

Final Thoughts

Taking an international vacation is expensive, but it can also be a great way to build memories as a family. We’re doing all we can to help get our teens excited about the trip. Otherwise, if they’re grumpy and miserable, we’ve wasted a lot of money rather than spent an enjoyable two weeks abroad.

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Melissa Batai