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How to Use the Money When You No Longer Pay for Daycare

May 11, 2023 | Leave a Comment

Picture of daycare toys on a shelf

When you have a newborn baby, the expenses come fast and furious. Diapers are expensive, as is formula (if you need to buy it). However, those expenses are small compared to daycare costs. Depending on where you live, daycare can cost $1,000 or more monthly. Many parents count down until their child enters school, and they can reclaim the money spent on daycare. But not so fast. What if you reallocate the money when you no longer pay for daycare for future expenses your child will incur? (Trust me, costs keep climbing as your child moves into the tween and teen years.)

Why Should You Reallocate the Money?

Since you’re already spending a set amount for daycare, you’re used to paying that cost. So why not keep putting aside the money when you no longer have to pay for daycare? Future you will be thankful you did this.

How to Allocate the Money

Tweens and teens are lovely, but they’re also expensive! Here are some of the upcoming expenses that you may want to save for by using the money you used for daycare:

Braces

Picture of a girl smiling with braces on her teeth.

I have three kids, and two of the three needed braces. Thankfully, we had good dental insurance that covered approximately half of each child’s cost. However, even with the insurance, we still had to pay $6000 out of pocket, roughly $3000 for each kid. We started a braces fund when our first child was nine, but even then, we had to finance and pay monthly. Imagine if we had invested the money we paid for daycare. We could have covered the cost of braces from this fund since daycare for our oldest cost $800 a month (and that was over a decade ago).

Future Activities

Kids’ activities can be expensive, especially if they join traveling sports teams. My daughter takes one dance class a week, but some girls in her class are part of the company and take five to eight dance classes per week. The cost of the classes, dance shoes, and performance costumes adds up quickly. If you have more than one child with this type of dedication, the cost of classes can come close to the cost of daycare expenses.

College Fund

Finally, and perhaps most importantly, consider setting aside the money you no longer pay for daycare for a college fund. Putting money into a college fund as soon as your child is born is the wisest decision because of the power of compounding interest. However, when your child is five and attending school, if you funnel all of the daycare money into a college account, you’ll be in a strong position to pay college expenses.

Final Thoughts

Considering how you will reclaim the money for daycare once your child is in school is attractive. However, for your financial future, the more intelligent decision might be to use the money to save for other expenses your child will have, especially college expenses.

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Melissa Batai
Melissa Batai

Melissa is a writer and virtual assistant. She earned her Master’s from Southern Illinois University, and her Bachelor’s in English from the University of Michigan. When she’s not working, you can find her homeschooling her kids, reading a good book, or cooking. She resides in Arizona where she dislikes the summer heat but loves the natural beauty of the area.

Filed Under: Education, Money and Finances, Parenting Blog at KidsAintCheap Tagged With: biggest childhood expenses, braces, college, daycare, extracurriculars

Paying for Extracurriculars Without Breaking the Bank

August 26, 2021 | Leave a Comment

Paying for Extracurriculars
Kids are naturally curious and tend to get excited about sports, musical instruments, and all sorts of group activities.  While you may appreciate their enthusiasm, you also likely have to balance your budget. I’ve learned over the years that paying for extracurriculars without breaking the bank is possible.

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Melissa Batai
Melissa Batai

Melissa is a writer and virtual assistant. She earned her Master’s from Southern Illinois University, and her Bachelor’s in English from the University of Michigan. When she’s not working, you can find her homeschooling her kids, reading a good book, or cooking. She resides in Arizona where she dislikes the summer heat but loves the natural beauty of the area.

Filed Under: Parenting, Parenting Blog at KidsAintCheap, Secondhand Stores Tagged With: Budget, extracurriculars, music, Sports

Low-Cost After School Activities for Kids

March 26, 2020 | Leave a Comment

More and more, parents are not content to let their kids stay home after school watching TV and playing video games.  Instead, they want their kids to be involved in activities that will help them grow and learn more.  Being involved in activities helps children’s personal development, but it will also help improve their college admission chances because colleges routinely look for well-rounded students who are not only strong academically, but are involved in a variety of activities.  However, most parents struggle to find appropriate activities because they are intimidated by the high price tag of some activities like playing an instrument or horse back riding.  If that is your concern, keep in mind that there are many low-cost after school activities for kids.

Low-Cost After School Activities for Kids

Low-Cost After School Activities for Kids

The following are great places to start when you’re searching for after school activities:

School Based Activities

The first place to look for low-cost after school activities for kids is at your child’s school.

Sports

Your child’s school likely offers a host of sports from football to baseball to volleyball to swimming to track and field.  Some of these sports will be completely free to participate in and others will require some equipment and perhaps some fund raising participation.

Many kids participate in one sport per season and stay very busy and active with that schedule.  Even better, they stay physically fit!

Clubs

Likewise, after school clubs are usually free.  When my son was younger, he participated in choir and art club, each of which met one time per week.  Now that he’s in high school, he joined the Model U.N. Club, which also meets once a week.

Depending on the size of your child’s school, there are likely to be a handful of clubs or many more.  Likely she can find one she wants to participate in.

Library Based Activities

Many people don’t consider the library when looking for low-cost after school activities for kids, but it’s a great place to look!  Our local library has many activities for kids and teens as I’m sure yours does also.

Games

Our library has a game night once per month, but there are also other get togethers for such things as Minecraft and Legos.

Chess Club

Low-Cost After School Activities for Kids

Photo by Wim van ‘t Einde on Unsplash

Once a month, our library has a chess club meeting.  Kids can bring a chess board and play against one another for two hours.  I’m always surprised to see how many kids are there.  Upwards of 20 to 25 kids come to play chess.

Teen Advisory Board

In our area, each local library hosts a teen advisory board once or twice per month.  All participants must be 13 to 18 years old.  Together, they help organize activities for the library, and they also have the option to volunteer when the library hosts activities.  Some weeks, they also do fun things such as receive specialized art lessons or do something good for the community like make cards for seniors.

Girl Scouts/Boy Scouts

Girl Scouts or Boy Scouts is another option.  You will have an initial upfront fee to buy the uniform and the book.  This runs about $80 to $100.  Then, there are fees for camping events and badges, so this isn’t the cheapest activity around.

However, by joining the Scouts, your child could keep quite busy between attending the meetings, going on camping trips and other outings, and working on badges.  Many adults fondly remember their time in scouting and say they learned a great deal that helped shape their lives.

Parks and Recreation Activities

Have you looked at your local parks and recreations or community center activities?  Depending on the area that you live in, you could find many activities from sports to arts and crafts.

My kids have regularly taken advantage of parks and recreations activities.  My son took swim lessons there, and my daughter has participated in several crafting classes as well as a gymnastics class when she was little.  What I love about activities through the parks and recreation or community center is that they’re low cost.  Depending on the activity, you pay $20 to $40 for a six-week class, and most supplies are included.

A word of warning, though.  Since these classes are such a bargain, they typically fill up quickly.  To be able to get a seat for your child, you may have to sign up early on the day that registration begins.

AYSO

One activity canvasing the United States is the American Youth Soccer Organization (AYSO).  AYSO is open to both boys and girls from three to 19.  There is an initial joining fee, and you’ll be required to sometimes bring snacks for the team.  You’ll also need to buy the proper equipment such as shin guards and cleats, but these can be bought second hand at a used sporting goods store.

Once your child joins AYSO, you can expect him to have practice two times per week (perhaps more depending on his age), and to have one game a week.  My son joined AYSO and had a wonderful coach, but when we played against other teams, I saw some less than stellar coaches that berated their players.  Make sure you have a coach who encourages and supports the children.

Church Groups

If you belong to a church, consider having your children join some of the church activities.  My daughter sings in our church choir and attends practice once a week.  My son is part of the teen group.  The teen group meets once a week for 1.5 hours, and they also participate in service activities and weekend retreats.

Church activities are typically free except for special events like retreats.

Final Thoughts

If you’re looking to get your child in an activity or two but you’re worried about the cost, rest assured that there are many low-cost after school activities for kids.  You’ll be glad your kids are more involved, and your kids will likely enjoy being out with friends doing something fun.  Plus, you’ll be laying the groundwork for college admissions, if that’s something your child wants to pursue in the future.

Melissa Batai
Melissa Batai

Melissa is a writer and virtual assistant. She earned her Master’s from Southern Illinois University, and her Bachelor’s in English from the University of Michigan. When she’s not working, you can find her homeschooling her kids, reading a good book, or cooking. She resides in Arizona where she dislikes the summer heat but loves the natural beauty of the area.

Filed Under: Money and Finances Tagged With: Activities, after school activities, extracurriculars, Sports

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  1. What You Do Matters: Your kids are watching you. So, be purposeful about what you want to accomplish.
  2. You Can’t be Too Loving: Don’t replace love with material possessions, lowered expectations or leniency.
  3. Be Involved Your Kids Life: Arrange your priorities to focus on what your kid’s needs. Be there mentally and physically.
  4. Adapt Your Parenting: Children grow quickly, so keep pace with your child’s development.
  5. Establish and Set Rules: The rules you set for children will establish the rules they set for themselves later.  Avoid harsh discipline and be consistent.
  6. Explain Your Decisions: What is obvious to you may not be evident to your child. They don’t have the experience you do.
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