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Sounds Like You Discuss Family Finances With Your Kids?

April 22, 2015 | Leave a Comment

Wondering if you should discuss your family finances with your kids? I think you should. Here's why.I had a conversation with a woman I know recently about money and kids. She made a comment about hiding her income tax papers from her kids so they wouldn’t come across any details of her and her husband’s income. ‘’I don’t want them seeing our gross income and suddenly thinking we’re rich and they can have anything they want’’- she explained. She and her husband make decent income and she is doing her best to hide this fact from her kids. She is of the opinion that children shouldn’t be involved at all with their money.

She and I differ. I think kids should very much be in the know when it comes to family finances. They need to know and understand how money works and where else can they learn (multiple times), with the security that is home? Though I have learned quite a bit about personal finances, it was all self-taught, as an adult. In the situation of this couple, she has a learning opportunity with her kids to educate them. She can, and should, teach them how far money really goes.

I read something once that said the easiest way to teach kids about taxes is to eat 30% of their icecream. She can start with this point. Show her kids the number on paper and then show how much is taken away in taxes. Now there isn’t as much money, is there? Kids think $100 is a lot of money when in reality you’re only taking $70 home for every $100 earned and of that $70 it gets split between food, housing, savings, and family activities it really doesn’t go as far as a child may think and they need to see this, not be sheltered from all finances.

Saving is so important. Both Long term and short term savings goals are not only vital to financial success but help prevent debt- one of the most important financial lessons you can teach your kids. Even though it may be your retirement goals, kids need to see how much work it is to reach this goal. Maybe you’re saving for their post secondary, show them. Let them know how much of your money you put aside every year for their future goals.

Financial education is not something we can assume they will learn outside of the home. Unfortunately they don’t learn enough about it in school, despite it being one of the most important skills a child will ever learn. Kids will appreciate the trust you give them in discussing the family finances. There are many ways you can go about actually having the conversations and you can release as many or as few details as you want. I’m of the opinion that it’s a family unit and though there may only be one or two income earners the money if for the family, the more transparency they better.

Do you share financial details with your children? If so, how much detail?

Catherine
Catherine

Catherine is a first time momma to a rambunctious toddler. When she isn’t soaking up all that motherhood has to offer, you can find her blogging over at Plunged in Debt where she chronicles her and her husbands journey out of debt. You can also follow her on Twitter.

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Filed Under: Money and Finances, Uncategorized Tagged With: family finances, kids and money, personal finance

5 Ways to Keep Family Costs Down

April 15, 2015 | Leave a Comment

Let's be real - having a family is expensive! Here are five smart ways to keep family costs down.A family, as a unit, is expensive. There are a lot of expenses when multiple people are involved and the costs add up- quickly. If you’re not careful these costs can bust a family’s budget but with a little planning you can find a decent balance. There are a few areas that are more obvious when it comes to the question ‘’where is all the money going?’’ but since being aware of it is half the battle you can try to avoid the creeping costs all together.

Meal Plan

Food is a massive portion of a family’s budget and meal planning is the easiest way to avoid going over in the food category. If you’re looking to keep costs down, meal planning is a must. Involve everyone in the family to make sure everyone has a say. You can also involve the older kids in the cooking of the meals they help plan.

Prioritize Extracurriculars

Most people have interests, hobbies and extracurricular activities. If everyone did everything they wanted all the time it would likely be much too expensive. Sit down as a family and prioritize what is most important to everyone and come up with a financial plan to keep both family members, and budget- happy. It’s not fair if one kids plays hockey, soccer, piano lessons and takes art classes but you tell kid #2 you can only afford for them to play soccer because there isn’t enough money left in the budget. Things need to be fair for everyone!

Limit Vacations

Vacations, especially ones that involve airfare, are expensive. Rather than trying to plan a vacation every year take some time off and enjoy cheap fun around home. Save the larger trips for every few years (if even that frequent) and find cheaper ways to enjoy time off. When (and if) you do plan a larger trip shop around and capitalize on reward programs as much as possible to keep costs down.

Shop Used

Certain things can definitely be purchased used, especially children’s items like clothes and toys. You can save huge amounts money by shopping around and looking online and in second hand stores. The speed at which kids grow gives a large selection of gently used great quality clothes and toys to choose from.

Limit Eating Out

Eating out is expensive especially when multiple people are involved. There are ways to do it (like capitalizing on kids eat free nights) but the best way to save money is to do just that- save it and eat at home. Save eating out for special occasions only and everyone will enjoy it much more when it’s an anticipated treat.

Though having a family has more costs than being single or a couple there are ways to avoid letting the family costs consume all your money. It takes a little planning and awareness but it is possible to keep family costs down!

How do you keep family costs down?

Catherine
Catherine

Catherine is a first time momma to a rambunctious toddler. When she isn’t soaking up all that motherhood has to offer, you can find her blogging over at Plunged in Debt where she chronicles her and her husbands journey out of debt. You can also follow her on Twitter.

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Filed Under: Money and Finances Tagged With: budgeting, keep family costs down, meal planing, save money

4 Ways to Get Organized for Tax Season

April 9, 2015 | Leave a Comment

Looking to get organized for tax season? Here are four systems that will save you time and stress when the tax deadline rolls around. #BeatTheDeadlineThis post is part of the TaxACT #BeatTheDeadline blog tour which shares tips on how to make tax time a smooth and easy process before the April 15 deadline. TaxACT provides the tools and guidance to help you confidently file taxes easy and fast. Do your own taxes today at TaxACT. You got this.

The tax deadline is quickly approaching and we all know that gathering up tax documents is half of the process when it comes to filing an income tax return.

Whether you’ve already filed your taxes or are still putting it off I want to show you a few different ways you can get (and stay) organized for tax season. Trust me, it will make filing so much easier.

Use an Expanding Folder or File Folder System

I’ve used an expanding folder for keeping my bills organized for years. It’s also an amazing way to keep your tax documents organized.

With expanding folders you can generally put tabs at the top of each section. This makes a great and super easy way to keep ahold of all of your tax documents.

You can make one section for income, another for expenses, and a third for investment documents, just to name a few. Since these sections expand so well they’re also perfect to hold the prior year’s tax returns.

If you’re not into the expanding folder another option is to just use regular file folders. You can keep all of your tax information in one folder or break it down by type.

Use an Income Tax Binder

Aside from the expanding folders I also have a thing for binders. Binders are an easily customizable way to stay completely organized.

To get started purchase a binder and tabs and then create sections for your individual tax situation. When documents come in just grab a hole punch and place them in the binder.

Go (Mostly) Digital

If you hate the idea of hanging onto a bunch of physical copies of your documents then consider going digital. You can scan your items into your computer and organize them in a folder on your desktop. This works especially well if you have a ton of receipts you’re keeping track of.

Just be sure to backup all of your data. You don’t want to lose everything you have in the event of a computer crash.

Use a Spreadsheet

In addition to using expanding folders and binders I also like to keep track of my income and expenses on a spreadsheet.

I record any applicable expenses all year long as well as all 1099 income. At the end of the year I know exactly who I should receive 1099’s from and how much they should be.

You can also create a spreadsheet to keep track of what tax documents you’ll be receiving and then check them off as they come. By doing this you won’t accidentally file your taxes before you have everything you need to report.

Get Organized, It Makes Taxes Easier!

Once you’re organized filing your taxes is easy.

If you still haven’t filed your taxes this year don’t worry, you still have time. Use the next couple of days to come up with an organizational system that works best for you and then get to filing.

If you can keep your system up all year long you’ll see how much time and stress you can save when tax season rolls around again.

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Brian
Brian

Brian is the founder of Kids Ain’t Cheap and is now sharing his journey through parenthood.

 
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Filed Under: Money and Finances Tagged With: Organization, tax filing, tax season, TaxAct

Keeping Family Documents Safe

April 8, 2015 | Leave a Comment

Doing some spring cleaning? Don't forget about keeping family documents safe. Here's what to do.Sometime between Christmas and summer I get an urge to clean and organize everything in our home. I think this comes from a combination of the influx of new gifts at Christmas (in with new, out with old), the fact that we spend more time inside in the winter so I’m surrounded by ‘’stuff’’ and the fact that come summer, I don’t want to do any of this so I want it done beforehand!

Things have changed for us a bit over the past few years. Since adding a child to our family suddenly there are a lot more important ‘’things’’ in our home. Things I want protected in the off chance something were to happen to us or our property.

Paper Documents

Passports, birth certificates, proof of insurance, you name it, if it’s very important we keep it in a fireproof safe. I thought about getting a safety deposit box but it seemed like more effort. I was lucky enough to receive a large safe from my in-laws for Christmas, which we use to all important original documents.

If it’s something you can have duplicates of (think insurance papers, not passports) scan them and keep a secondary copy on a computer or ideally in a cloud like Dropbox which you could access anywhere in the world.

Pictures

One of the things I am most thankful for in this technology age is digital pictures. I need to get better at backing them up but it’s a lot less stressful than only having that one single original picture like our parents. I have a memory card that I upload all my important pictures to which again, goes in the safety deposit box. I also like to print some pictures giving me an added copy.

Kid and Family Stuff

Though we couldn’t possibly keep every little craft or picture she makes us, there are some things she has made that I can’t imagine ever losing. I have decided I can’t let it get out of control though, I bought a small airtight plastic container to save these things in and once it’s full we need to stop or cut back. Though this wouldn’t  be any good if we were in a fire or something alike, it’s safe from everyday ‘house elements’ and I also take pictures of my favorite, special crafts which again gets backed up.

Computer Stuff/Digital Life

External hard drives can be a lifesaver. You’d think I would have learned my lesson when my computer crashed in university, losing everything, but it took losing my computer full of non backed-up photos of my child to really learn the lesson. I now back everything up on an external hard drive- which again can go in the safe, or a cloud- which I have access to anywhere in the world.

Life is suddenly more precious when an entire family is involved. If a fire hit our house I couldn’t care less about our clothes, dishes or appliances but if I lost my first Mother’s Day card I’d be devastated. Kids put everything into perspective, keep your family safe and make sure your important things are protected!

How do you keep your family documents safe?

Catherine
Catherine

Catherine is a first time momma to a rambunctious toddler. When she isn’t soaking up all that motherhood has to offer, you can find her blogging over at Plunged in Debt where she chronicles her and her husbands journey out of debt. You can also follow her on Twitter.

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Filed Under: Money and Finances Tagged With: family documents, keep family documents safe, organizing

Non-Sugar Easter Egg Ideas

April 1, 2015 | Leave a Comment

Looking for some Easter egg ideas? Here are nine of them that aren't candy!I love Easter. Whatever reason you celebrate the season, it’s a fun time. It’s often less busy than Christmas and I look forward to the slower pace. To me it’s pure innocence. Kids have fun with the Easter bunny, churches are beautifully decorated, flowers make their appearance and usually, spring is here.

It’s a time for family which I always look forward to. We get a long weekend to be with each other and have a feast with our extended family to celebrate. Having kids put a whole new element of fun into it. Though I’ve always enjoyed the holiday, having fun with my daughter and watching her explore everything has been super enjoyable.

Since my husband and I started playing the role of the Easter bunny (something we’ve already failed at since our almost three-year-old found our stash), I’ve become more aware of sugar and treats. Don’t get me wrong, I love candy and chocolate, and I certainly allow my daughter to have some too, but when we as her parents do an Easter basket for her, and I know other friends and family will also have treats for her, I try to control what I can on our end. No three-year-old needs as much candy as I know is coming to her in the upcoming week.

We bought her very little candy and chocolate full-well expecting the rest of the family (grandparents and aunts mostly) to act out on their need to buy treats for her 😉 Instead we opted to focus on some non-sugary treats to put inside the eggs for her Easter egg hunt and I thought I would share my list of ideas:

  • Tattoos. I don’t know about all kids but my daughter thinks they are the coolest thing ever.
  • Stickers. The local dollar store has small baggies of loose stickers making them easy to put in her eggs.
  • Jewelry. Again dollar store to the rescue for cheap plastic play jewelry.
  • Hair stuff for girls.
  • Playdough. You could fill the egg with playdough and keep the original container to place back in.
  • Money. Who wouldn’t love few extra dollars? My grandparents put money in some of our eggs at Easter with the expectation we’d put some extra on the collection plate later that day at church.
  • Toys. We found some extra-large eggs this year, something like a hotwheels car would be able to fit easily.
  • A Prayer. If you follow a religious aspect of Easter placing a sweet Easter prayer inside is a nice way of passing it along.
  • Gift certificate (or alike). Depending on how much you spend it might be an idea.

Again, I’m not a candy hater. In fact I look forward to Easter candy more than any other treat in the rest of the year, but kids tend to get so much sugar it is nice to have other options. The less candy she gets, the less I eat so there’s an added bonus too 😉

What sort of Easter treats will you put in your kids eggs?

Also read:

  • The Family Easter Tree
  • Frugal Easter Fun for Kids
Catherine
Catherine

Catherine is a first time momma to a rambunctious toddler. When she isn’t soaking up all that motherhood has to offer, you can find her blogging over at Plunged in Debt where she chronicles her and her husbands journey out of debt. You can also follow her on Twitter.

plungedindebt.com

Filed Under: Holidays Tagged With: Easter, non-sugar Easter treats

Would You Make Your Kids Pay You Back For Their Braces?

March 25, 2015 | 1 Comment

make kids pay for their bracesOrthodontic treatment (aka ‘’braces’’) are expensive. The materials aren’t cheap and it’s a long process- usually 12-24 months’ worth of adjustments, fittings, elastics, retainers, it’s a lot of work. I see it every day from pre-treatment to end of treatment. It’s a big topic in dentistry for both kids and adults. Though there is a large population of adults who wear braces, most clients I see are children (or young teens) who are going through treatment, basically because their parents signed them up for it.

The dentist I work for will not place braces on a patient until they (the patient and parents) have full understanding (regardless of age) of the importance of retaining after the treatment is done. 9.5 times out of 10 a person MUST wear their retainers, at least weekly for the rest of their lives, if they want to keep teeth perfectly straight. Yes there are some miracle cases that stay even though the retainer has never been in the mouth, but there’s a slim to none chance teeth will stay straight without some retention. Teeth want to go back to their original position no matter how ‘’right’’ the corrected position is.

Given that most of the ortho people we see are young kids, who despite us reminding them constantly, rarely wear their retainers properly and end up with relapse. Sometimes it’s mild and doesn’t bother them but we see a few cases of almost 100% relapse too where the braces are removed and they simply never bother retaining the teeth.

I had one of these cases in last week. He was a 22 year old male who went through full ortho treatment six years ago. Admittedly he never bothered with the retainers and his teeth have almost totally relapsed. He was complaining because his mom made him pay her back.

His mom paid cash for his braces. Their insurance didn’t cover it so for two years his mom and step dad made monthly payments on his account for his $5,000+case.  He explained that she was mad at him for allowing his teeth to relapse and because he didn’t hold up his end of the bargain by wearing his retainers and she wanted a refund now that he was working full-time.

It got me thinking, though I work in the industry so I feel like our situation may be a little different, the fact remains that if (and likely, when) our daughter gets braces, she will be 100% informed the entire process. Unless medically necessary (there are some instances and there almost a 0% chance she will fall into one) I will not put braces on her until she agrees to follow all directions, including wearing retainers. Though I will gently remind her to wear them occasionally (how could I not being a mom and dental hygienist?) I will not hound her. It’s her responsibility and if I don’t think she could handle it, I won’t do it.

If she agrees and commits 100%, but ultimately fails due to neglect, I’d be super disappointed and may come up with an ultimatum. Though certainly not for everyone, I don’t necessarily think this mom in question was wrong for asking for her son to pay her back as he had made promises to her- as a young adult.

Would you ever ask your kids to pay back for such an expense?

Catherine
Catherine

Catherine is a first time momma to a rambunctious toddler. When she isn’t soaking up all that motherhood has to offer, you can find her blogging over at Plunged in Debt where she chronicles her and her husbands journey out of debt. You can also follow her on Twitter.

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Filed Under: Medical Tagged With: braces, Kids, kids pay for their braces

Three Inexpensive Spring Break Ideas

March 18, 2015 | Leave a Comment

Searching for things for your kids to do during spring break? These three inexpensive spring break ideas are sure to keep them entertained.The month of March usually means a spring break for kids, and parents. I was floored when a parent told me they were spending $1,000 for their kid to go to a specialty camp for the week. One thousand dollars. Wow. We’re three years away from our first spring break but with prices like that I’ll need to start saving now if we want her to do anything!

Neither my husband nor I have the ability to easily step away from our job so when spring break does happen we may be able to take a day or two but I already know we will need to get creative with what we do with our daughter for the week. Luckily we have a lot of amazing friends and family who we can enlist to help! If you don’t have an army of people to call upon, there are still plenty of things to do that doesn’t include a $10,000 trip out of town and contending with massive crowds.

Museums

I admit that growing up I thought museums were boring. I don’t live in a huge city but we have a few small museums that cater to kids during spring break. Most often you can spend entire days there doing day camps, for free. The most expensive camp I could find was $10 for the day per child and this included a lunch and supplies for the day, totally reasonable. Look around at different museums and see if they offer anything special during spring break and what the details are (sometimes drop off isn’t allowed and you need to provide supervision sort-of-thing).

Plan a fun day at Home

I have a memory during one of my spring breaks growing up with a day spent with my babysitter. She came over for the day and told my sister and I that we were having a movie day since it was pouring rain out. We built a massive fort with blankets, pillows and couch cushions, all hung out and watched movies and ate popcorn. It was simple and cheap! Plan a fun day at home depending on your kid’s ages and interests. Obviously if the weather is nice, getting outside is always enjoyable.

Check out a local Library

Though kids may be reluctant to go anywhere near a book during their spring break, libraries, like museums often have fun activities going on. I know our local library has everything from a ‘’meet the princess day’’ for toddlers to a computer programing class for older kids. Classes fill up fast so check them out early.

As a parent, the thought of spending a week pushing through busy crowds somewhere like Disney World does not appeal to me at all. I’d rather save my travel budget for different (and cheaper) time of year and enjoy a quite spring break at home!

Catherine
Catherine

Catherine is a first time momma to a rambunctious toddler. When she isn’t soaking up all that motherhood has to offer, you can find her blogging over at Plunged in Debt where she chronicles her and her husbands journey out of debt. You can also follow her on Twitter.

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Filed Under: Parenting Tagged With: cheap spring break ideas, inexpensive spring break ideas, spring break

Should You Save For Post Secondary or Spend it on Experience?

March 11, 2015 | Leave a Comment

One family has made the decision to spend money on traveling instead of college for their children. Would you do the same?I remember years ago reading about a traditionally large family (four or five kids) and how they decided early on in their marriage how many kids they would have and that they wouldn’t save a single penny for their post-secondary education.

Though it sounds  like it may be a little irresponsible for a well-educated couple to actively chose to have a large family, demand post-secondary from their kids, but have no system in place to help them with a post-secondary education, but they had good reason.

Spending on Experience

They chose very early on to spend their money on experiences rather than save. Their main idea was to live a very simple farm life, homeschool the children (more freedom) and spend their money with the kids on varying travel and other experiences.

The parents worked from home and mom homeschooled the kids.  Rather than just watching a movie, they would travel all over North American experiencing things they read about in their studies allowing them to gain a much better perspective on topics. They would spend time visiting university campuses too in different regions, even when their kids were young as they felt it was important for the kids to picture themselves (and give them motivation) at such an institution.

Whatever they did seemed to work as their oldest was accepted to post-secondary on a scholarship with the younger siblings close behind.

While I don’t think it is a parenting requirement (to pay for post-secondary) I am intrigued by this method.

College Education or World Experience?

 

There is something to be said for actually experiencing the world beyond your little bubble. When I got into dental hygiene and we studied anatomy on actual cadavers, I remember distinctly my mind being blown when I saw the aorta for the first time. At this point I had studied anatomy in text books during my undergrad, saw many pictures of the heart and all surrounding strictures but until I actually saw one it didn’t occur to me how large it actually was. The gross anatomy class I took that year was without a doubt the most challenging class I’ve ever taken, but one of my best grades because of the lab experiences we had with the class.

I’d love to be able to send my daughter on various trips for her to experience the world in a similar manner but as long we we’re stashing out extra pennies for her potential post-secondary, we can’t. Though we will travel as a family, I like the idea of her being able to capitalize on solo excursions too as she gets older and this story sits at the back of my memory. I’d rather forgo some of the things I want in life so we can save and have the resources for her to be able to if and when the opportunity arises.

I really do believe the more opportunities a child has to truly experience the world the more successful they will be in life in general. If this helps her gain scholarships and not need our savings that’s a bonus for us.

Catherine
Catherine

Catherine is a first time momma to a rambunctious toddler. When she isn’t soaking up all that motherhood has to offer, you can find her blogging over at Plunged in Debt where she chronicles her and her husbands journey out of debt. You can also follow her on Twitter.

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Filed Under: Education Tagged With: college, traveling

Why Your Family Budget Should Go Beyond the Month

March 4, 2015 | Leave a Comment

Your family budget should be made beyond a one month time span. Forecasting six months worth of expenses can be a much smarter move. Here's how to do it.Most people I know budget monthly. I don’t do this. I like to have a forecasted budget at least six months in advance. With a family to care for, I feel it is especially important to budget beyond the standard one month window.

Forecasting a Family Budget

Kids have various needs. For example, I already know at the end of the summer we will be enrolling our daughter into dance class, if I waited until July to figure these how we’ll pay for this we might not be able to do it, I wouldn’t know until the time came. With a forecasted budget, I can input the classes into the budget and start making arrangements, months in advance.

You don’t have to have a set income to budget beyond a month. Both mine and my husband’s income varies each month but that doesn’t matter because regardless of how we budget we always budget worst case in terms of income and opt to use any overage for savings goals or debt repayment.

For us our daycare costs are also variable. We only pay for the days that she is actually there rather than a flat monthly rate. I know this is more unusual than most, but given the variability I need to be able to see how the difference in days affects us month to month. When our babysitter takes two weeks off in the summer, I need to figure out how to best allocate those funds. Our daycare costs can vary as much as $300 a month and I like to know before the month actually happens how the monies will be dispersed.

While some people may choose to budget these variable expenses differently, maybe but putting a set amount into an account each month for said random events, I prefer to budget the exact amount within our given monthly funds.

I also like that if I budget one amount but it ends up being more or less how that affects the line, months in advance. While spending $50 extra here and there might even out for the month, six months of doing so may leave you a few hundred short. With this in mind I can either decide to keep expenses the same or it gives me time to make more money.

When I input our family trip into our budget, along with other savings targets we set, I could see we were short a little but not until August. This gives me six months of budgeting to make up this difference and balance it. It also gives me time to look more closely at our current budget, maybe I should cut down the budgeted amount for Mother’s day and Father’s day to make up the difference or maybe I should pick up a few more shifts at work.

Financial security is so important when you have a family to care for and having a family to care for usually means your budget has the potential to be more erratic and you’ll need some flexibility. Budgeting in the future gives you much more flexibility than month-to-month.

How do you budget for your family?

 

Catherine
Catherine

Catherine is a first time momma to a rambunctious toddler. When she isn’t soaking up all that motherhood has to offer, you can find her blogging over at Plunged in Debt where she chronicles her and her husbands journey out of debt. You can also follow her on Twitter.

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Filed Under: Money and Finances Tagged With: budget forecasting, budgeting variable expenses, Family Budget

Should You Buy Your Kid a Car?

February 25, 2015 | Leave a Comment

Should you buy your kid a car? This a question that pops up for parents with teenage kids and there is no easy answer. Here's what we think.I have friends who, for their 16th birthday received a car as their gift from their parents. This concept was totally out of the question in my house and most other friends, but there were a handful of kids growing up who were given cars as presents.

Depending on where you live, a vehicle may be a necessity to live your life; I’m not talking about you. I’m talking about the average suburban family who chooses to spend a bunch of cash (or in some cases financing!) to give their kid a car.

I Paid for My First Car

I didn’t need my own car when I was a teenager. My mom has a pretty decent work schedule that would allow me to have access to the car pretty frequently. I had a job and was required to help contribute to the gas used and I also gave her $25 per month to put towards insurance. To me this was fair.

I didn’t own my own car until I was 23 when it became a necessity with my university schedule. I had to be at clinic before any public bus could get me there from where I was living, and late nights at school were meaning me taking the public bus home alone and added a 50 minute commute (a drive I could do in 20 minutes).

When the time came for me to get my own (very used) vehicle I paid for it myself. I had a very limited budget but found a Toyota Corolla from an older man who couldn’t drive anymore. He sold it to me for $750, fully inspected.

We Won’t Be Buying Our Daughter a Car

When my daughter is old enough I don’t suspect we will be buying her, her own vehicle. If she wants one, we may help her in some way but it won’t be gifted to her without her asking and nothing will happen until she proves the maturity of owning a vehicle.

When she gets her first job, if she decides owning a car of her own is what she wants, then we will help her establish savings goals. It isn’t just the price of the vehicle, she will need to save enough for everything that comes with it (like plates, registration etc.). While we establish the budget and she is saving her money, she will still be driving with us in our vehicle where she will build her driving confidence. I also don’t want her owning a vehicle to take away all of her money because that’s just as irresponsible.

While we may help her financially, maybe matching a certain savings goal of her own, we won’t outright buy a vehicle for her sole use. In most cases I don’t think it’s necessary. It’s not like my husband and I plan on driving around town in $60,000 cars that we may worry she will crash either.

A car is a massive responsibility. Until she can afford the car, the maintenance, insurance and gas we won’t allow her to own one. I also want to have her build her confidence as a driver before owning her own vehicle. For these reasons ideally she waits a while before getting her own car.

Did you buy your child a car? Why/why not?

Catherine
Catherine

Catherine is a first time momma to a rambunctious toddler. When she isn’t soaking up all that motherhood has to offer, you can find her blogging over at Plunged in Debt where she chronicles her and her husbands journey out of debt. You can also follow her on Twitter.

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4 Personal Finance Tips for the Ages

February 23, 2015 | Leave a Comment

how to get by on a low incomeMoney-making schemes come and go, but stalwart money management methods do not have expiration dates. Of course, it is wise to adjust your financial strategy throughout your life, guiding your efforts toward the greatest returns. But some financial tactics simply never fall out of favor.

Ongoing financial success builds off of solid fundamentals, so instead of focusing on passing fancy, the most disciplined money managers stick to the basics. Building and protecting credit, saving, and living a life you can afford are chief principles of effective money management, so these cornerstones are worth a closer look.

Live Within Your Means

Though it may seem like an obvious point, maintaining an affordable lifestyle is essential for anyone wanting to stay solvent. With a steady income and fixed expenses, cash flow is easily managed from month-to-month. Freelancers and self-employed workers may face greater challenges reconciling irregular income and spending, but even entrepreneurs find ways to balance their books.

It is difficult to manage finances on-the-fly, so the best way to account for your expenses is to track spending, and then create a budget. Treat your personal cash flow just like a business would, staying atop deposit income as well as outgoing payables.

To create a workable budget: First, divide your customary buys into manageable categories, to illustrate exactly where your money goes. Next, fill-in payments and other spending to create a sample snapshot of your finances. Use at least one month’s worth of data, but try to accumulate budget information for a full quarter (three months).

Once you’ve determined where your money goes, it is easy to reel-in savings. Though fixed expenses, like mortgages and other recurring payments may leave little room for cutbacks, discretionary buys like entertainment, travel, food, and fashion can be pared for positive financial gains.

Strive to Save

It is easier said than done for many well-meaning families, who make ends meet with little room for savings. Even small sums go a long way; however, as money set-aside mixes with time to produce positive long-term gains. Whenever possible, designate a monthly sum to add to your savings, perhaps taken aside from your paycheck. As savings grows, the dividends it earns also appreciates, compounding its value again and again.

Savings accounts have not been terribly profitable in recent years, with returns sometimes failing to beat the rate of inflation. And to make any progress at all, deposits must be held in fixed-rate accounts for a particular span of time, before gains set-in. To make the most of your savings, consider investments with greater upside potential, like stocks and other holdings.

Protect Your Assets

The recent mortgage meltdown shed light on personal financial security, as hundreds of thousands of borrowers faced foreclosure and default. Many lost everything they had worked hard to acquire. To increase your financial security, your debt-to-income ratio must be preserved within reasonable limits.

Insurance cover is another essential feature of your comprehensive financial plan. Without adequate home and car cover, your assets are at risk. And additional policies may be required to cover mortgages, unemployment, and even disability.

Plan for the Worst – Hope for the Best

Sage advice for personal money managers includes a contingency plan. While you hope never to call on your emergency scheme, having one in-place protects you from financial disaster. An emergency fund, for example, covering 3-6 months’ worth of fixed expenses, hedges against income lapses and ensures your bills are paid until conditions normalize.

In addition to cash reserves, keeping credit lines available further enhances your ability to endure temporary financial hardship. When credit accounts are pushed to their limits, on the other hand, interest pressure adds to your problems and the safety-net disappears.

Wills and other documents carry-on financial responsibility in the event of your demise. Maintaining the proper documentation protects your family members and ensures your financial resources remain available to them.

Financial security is a lifelong pursuit, requiring commitment and discipline. While each situation is unique, time-tested principles bring success to dedicated money managers. To ensure the best outcomes for yourself and family, maintain an affordable lifestyle and protect your assets. Savings and backup plans add extra comfort, preparing you to fend off unexpected financial difficulties.

Brian
Brian

Brian is the founder of Kids Ain’t Cheap and is now sharing his journey through parenthood.

 
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5 Awesome Ideas for Entertaining Kids While Stuck Inside

February 18, 2015 | Leave a Comment

Entertaining kids can be hard during the winter. Everyone just wants t get outside! If you've got cabin fever here are five ideas to try.It was only three weeks ago I was bragging about the beautiful winter we were having. It was temperate and overall pretty enjoyable. Then February hit. It has been a very long three weeks for us, dealing with a ton of heavy snow and ice like I’ve never experienced before. There is currently about six inches of ice on the walkway to our vehicle. Not fun.

Every day that we wake up my daughter asks if today is the day we can go to the playground and if the snow has melted yet. Unfortunately I have to say no. Playing outside in the winter can be fun but unfortunately we have been stuck inside dealing as the ice and extreme cold have made it impossible to enjoy fresh air.

Given that we have been dealing with serious cabin fever I have been looking for things to break the fever a little and this is what we have come up with:

Have a dance party!

Kiddo loves to dance so to get some exercise and lift our spirits a bit we blast music and dance in the living room. She has a ton of fun showing off her dancing skills and we’re able to burn some toddler energy off.

Crafts

Painting is something we don’t do every day since there is a little more involved than pulling out a box of crayons so kiddo is always excited to find out we’ll be playing with paint. I love the dollar store for craft supplies. For less than $10, I have months of supplies for days just like this. It’s amazing what some imagination and a few cheap supplies kids can come up with. Pinterest is a mecca of craft ideas for kids of all ages too.

Clean up

I know this isn’t the funnest idea, but if you’re forced to stay inside it’s a good time to tidy things up. I have been looking for a day to go through toys with my daughter and have her help decide which ones we can get rid of and donate.

Exercise

We own a treadmill which is great for weather like this, that is if you’re old enough to operate it. Obviously my daughter, who isn’t quite three, can’t use it but that doesn’t mean she can’t get some exercise in. YouTube is full of videos geared for young children’s fitness. Yoga, stretching, dancing are just a few. Watching a three year old do yoga is entertaining too.

Quiet time

This will depend on the age(s) of your kids but sometimes it’s nice to enjoy a little quite time with reading and games. This only lasts so long as I can attest to. We’ve already read all of her favorite books and played with all of her puzzles. It’s nice while it lasts though!

Sometimes I question my sanity for living in an area where this weather can be expected but all we can do is make the best of it! I know it won’t last forever and in just a few weeks I’ll be walking outside with no coat on and cursing the muddy ground. Until then though all I can do is beat cabin fever one day at a time.

What ideas do you have for entertaining kids in the winter?

Catherine
Catherine

Catherine is a first time momma to a rambunctious toddler. When she isn’t soaking up all that motherhood has to offer, you can find her blogging over at Plunged in Debt where she chronicles her and her husbands journey out of debt. You can also follow her on Twitter.

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Basic Principles Of Good Parenting

Here some basic principles for good parenting:

  1. What You Do Matters: Your kids are watching you. So, be purposeful about what you want to accomplish.
  2. You Can’t be Too Loving: Don’t replace love with material possessions, lowered expectations or leniency.
  3. Be Involved Your Kids Life: Arrange your priorities to focus on what your kid’s needs. Be there mentally and physically.
  4. Adapt Your Parenting: Children grow quickly, so keep pace with your child’s development.
  5. Establish and Set Rules: The rules you set for children will establish the rules they set for themselves later.  Avoid harsh discipline and be consistent.
  6. Explain Your Decisions: What is obvious to you may not be evident to your child. They don’t have the experience you do.
  7. Be Respectful To Your Child: How you treat your child is how they will treat others.  Be polite, respectful and make an effort to pay attention.
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